Just Got Engaged? Start Here! 💍
First of all — congrats! You’re engaged!!! & You are probably staring at your left hand a lot. Before things get wild with planning, here are a few fun + helpful first steps:
1. Soak it in
Before the Pinterest boards and venue tours, take a minute to just enjoy being engaged. Celebrate with your people. Pop the bubbly. You deserve it.
2. Talk big picture
Sit down with your partner and chat about the vibe. Backyard bash? Black tie? Beachy and barefoot? No need to have it all figured out — just start dreaming together.
3. Set a budget
Not the most glamorous part, but super important. Know what you’re working with before you start booking.
4. Choose your venue (hi 👋)
The venue sets the tone and locks in your date — and that’s when everything else falls into place. Whether you’re dreaming of a riverfront ceremony, a rustic celebration, or a ballroom moment, we’ve got you.
5. Start a planning folder
Google Drive, a cute notebook, or a wedding planning app — whatever works for you. Keep your inspo, vendor recs, and to-dos all in one spot.
6. Draft a guest list
You don’t need a final headcount, but a rough idea helps with choosing your venue and budget.
7. Think about your dream team
Planner? Photographer? DJ? Start asking around or stalking Instagram — vendors book up fast! Check out our vendor page for recommendations!
8. Follow venues + vendors you love
Your feed is about to get very bridal — embrace it. Follow the venues, planners, and creators that match your vibe. Instant inspo. Check out our favorite vendors here.
Need help finding your perfect venue?
We’d love to show you around Amelia Grove, Copper Ridge on the Neuse, or Stanly Hall Ballroom — each one has its own vibe, and we’re here to help you find your fit. Contact us today for more info or to schedule a tour at any of our venues. Also check out all 3 of our locations here –> New Bern Weddings